If it supports the same statements, you can pick the DQE sourcecode of the oracle dqe and compile that against the lite provider.
There aren't plans for supporting oracle lite for now, because the compact framework is a pain to program for, and if we had known the problems we ran into with sqlce support we never would have added the support.
Nevertheless, for oracle lite it should work similar to the sqlce support: you create a normal oracle project on oracle 10g, then generate code for oracle lite using a special template set (which for example skips stored procs, if oracle lite doesn't support these). The daaadapter.template needs a couple of conditional compilation statements to exclude the stored proc call code, and the references at the top of the file are probably different.
The amount of work is minimal, the amount of time spend to get it all working on the cf.net framework might be huge, due to the crappy development environment (no stacktraces!)